#160: Holy Cow, I’m going to be a WIFE

by Nicole on April 25, 2011

Posted in: Miscellaneous,Real Wedding

Well folks, he put a ring on it.  Mr. Man finally ponied up and did it!

That lying sack of potatoes, he’s been throwing me off for WEEKS…  Between the “I need to wait for a couple more paychecks” and the “We’ll sees” he had me pretty confused.

Well, my little sister came into town for the weekend… to supposedly spend Easter with us.  Or so I thought.  Silly me.

So, since ALL of you are asking how it went down, here goes…

Mr. Man woke up at 6:30 am yesterday (Easter) to go to sunlight service with his parents.  He doesn’t usually go, but I didn’t think anything of it.  In fact, I would have gone if we weren’t having 14 people over for a late lunch.  So I slept for about an hour and some change then got up, threw on one of his big (XL) t-shirts, a pair of sweatpants (VS “Boyfriend” pants to be precise), tossed my hair into a plop on top of my head (like… Pebbles style. When I say “on top” I really do mean ON TOP of my head), and headed downstairs to keep cooking (I’d been cooking all afternoon/evening on Saturday).

So Mr. Man comes home from his parents’ and says,

Let me know when you can step away from the stove for a couple minutes?

Looking back, my response was quite comical…

Why? What do you want to cook?

Dummy. He didn’t want to cook anything.  Duh.

Well, don’t you want to do the whole Easter basket thing?

I’m thinking, uh I mean sure? But it’s not a big deal? What is he doing? Can’t he see I’m BUSY!?

So I step away from the stove and I’m banished to the upstairs.  I’m told I can’t come down until he tells me to.  Okayyy… awesome.  Little sister and Mr. Man conspiring against me in my own house.  Very seldom do things like these end well.

So I’m told to come down.  Great.  I’m given a grocery bag.  Okay.  Cool.  So I ask my sister to take the dogs out real quick and she’s like “ok” — and nothing.  Sits there.  So again,

Uh can you take the dogs out real quick?

Sure. In a second.

So something is seriously up.  I’m told to go on an egg hunt.  I go to grab the first one I see, but noooo, I can’t have that one yet.

Seriously.  Now I know.  I know something is about to happen and I’m embarrassed and excited and nervous all at the same time… all whilst collecting my Easter eggs.  So, Mr. Man tells me I’ve found them all and I can grab the big one that I tried for previously.

It’s big.  Like, 5x as big as all the others.  And it’s clear.  But it’s full of paper grass crap.  I open the egg. Dig through the paper grass crap.  There’s a little black box.

[at this point, it's where it starts to get hazy, but little sister tells me I made a pretty funny face]

Everyone’s asking if he got on one knee.  My answer?

No. And it’s a damn good thing because I didn’t even open that black box, I walked over to him and started crying on him.  Where did this come from!? I’m still asking myself this question.  Last I checked, I’m not the girly girl and I didn’t expect myself to have that reaction.  I mean, I’m a crier.  But not at this stuff.  I surprised myself.  I’m still surprised.

So I gave him the box and said,

YOU DO IT!

 

 

To which he responded by opening it and just shyly saying…

Will you marry me?

I honestly don’t even know if I said yes.  I also don’t really remember what happened next, but thank goodness little sister refused to take the dogs out, because she filled in the blanks.  Apparently he put the bling on my finger and I hugged him, babbled a few things and couldn’t stop gawking at my hand.

Which, brings me to my next point.  I really didn’t think that just getting the ring would wind up to be such a big deal! I mean, shit, I can’t stop looking at my hand! I didn’t expect to be such a girl about this.

Which, also, brings me to my nexter (?) point.  I’ve found that I really don’t like all this attention! It makes me blush.  Much like this little guy:

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So. Yeah. Everyones gawking at my hand and congratulating me and it’s almost uncomfortable! Weird? Maybe.

All that being said, I’m elated… but it’s funny.  Because I’m also, terrified, overwhelmed and feel like I’m drowning in all sorts of exciting and scary things!

Anyway… enjoy, friends!!! xo

 

 

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1 Mallory April 25, 2011 at 3:46 pm

Haha I love this! Even though you told me all of this over the phone, I knew you’d put it together in an awesome blog post. Isn’t it awesome? It’s been a year and I STILL look at my finger :) It really doesn’t get old. Love you lots and I’m so glad you were so surprised!

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2 CoreyOLo April 25, 2011 at 3:57 pm

Congrats to you and Dan! I am so happy for you!

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3 Sarah & Kyle April 25, 2011 at 4:27 pm

Nicole, I am trying not to be awkward, but your ring is gorgeous and SO you. I’m so glad you’re happy and that you get to be a wife and trust me, with a Pi Lam boy as a husband, it has it’s downs, but the ups are so much better! Congratulations again!

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4 Nicole April 25, 2011 at 4:30 pm

Sarah, I’m totally awkward. Just let loose. Haha… and yes, I’m soooo not a stranger to the Pi Lam rollercoaster… as I’m sure you can imagine! :) So I guess I’m joining the elite group — because frankly, not many of us are cut out to put up with them, eh? ;)

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5 Ariella April 25, 2011 at 8:10 pm

I’m so, so happy for you!!! Congrats, girl!

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6 J (Sparkly Love) April 25, 2011 at 8:16 pm

This is so exciting and I love the story! Trying to picture you running around gathering your eggs while knowing what’s going to happen once your done… AHHH I don’t know how you managed to find them all. I would have just stood in the middle of the room and squealed!

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7 Alicia @CharityWedding April 25, 2011 at 8:43 pm

I am so excited for you! And I love that even thought you *knew* it was coming soon and have already planned so many details, you still didn’t see it coming! I think it I were you every time he said something nice, I’d be like ohhh he is about to propose! The ring- the symbol of the ring not the ring itself- really is SO important and makes it feel real and official even if you already knew for sure you’d get married anyway!

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8 Katie Baker April 25, 2011 at 9:26 pm

YAY! Congrats! I’m so happy for you! Even though you guys are already well on your way to your wedding…it’s nice to have some bling to confirm it!

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9 Naomi April 25, 2011 at 9:59 pm

Your ring is absolutely divine my dear. Congratulations…you ARE going to be a wife!!! Holy cow indeed! xo

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10 Steph April 25, 2011 at 10:41 pm

Congrats Girl! So happy for you!! I bet everything else will fall into place now :)

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11 cris from kiss my tulle April 25, 2011 at 11:54 pm

YAAAAAAAAY!!!!!

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12 Cindy April 26, 2011 at 9:19 am

YAYAYAY congrats! So happy for you guys! Love that he got help from your sister conspiring against you :) Your ring is gorgeous and you’re going to be a gorgeous bride. You’re already so ahead of the game when it comes to planning, so take a little time to enjoy the engagement glow. Let your twidesmaids know if you need anything! xoxo

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13 Jen (peachbride) April 26, 2011 at 10:44 am

Aw what a cute story!!! So excited for you both! :) Congratulations!!!!

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14 Meghan April 27, 2011 at 2:18 pm

YAY! He did it! I’m so happy for you! And the ring is stunning! Good on him!

<3

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15 Rachel April 27, 2011 at 4:51 pm

Ahhh!!! This is such an amazing story and I love the ring, so gorgeous! Congrats girly I’m so happy for you :) Love ya muches <3

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16 lizzie April 27, 2011 at 5:09 pm

WOOHOO! congrats! it’s beautiful!

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17 Sasha May 3, 2011 at 3:54 am

CONGRATS! I’m also newly engaged and have been following your blog for sometime. Thanks for the tips and I wish you happy planning! :)

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18 Nicole May 3, 2011 at 9:18 am

Thanks so much!! :o ) And congrats to you too… HAPPY PLANNING, and check in often to let me know how you’re doing!

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